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When I ask you to listen to me
and you start giving me advice,
you have not done what I asked.
When I ask you to listen to me
and you begin to tell me why
I shouldn\u2019t feel that way,
you are trampling on my feelings.
When I ask you to listen to me
and you feel you have to do something
to solve my problem,
you have failed me,
strange as that may seem.
Listen! All I ask is that you listen.
Don\u2019t talk or do \u2013 just hear me.
Advice is cheap; 20 cents will get
you both Dear Abby and Billy Graham
in the same newspaper.
And I can do for myself; I am not helpless.
Maybe discouraged and faltering,
but not helpless.
When you do something for me that I can
and need to do for myself,
you contribute to my fear and
inadequacy.
But when you accept as a simple fact
that I feel what I feel,
no matter how irrational,
then I can stop trying to convince
you and get about this business
of understanding what\u2019s behind
this irrational feeling.
And when that\u2019s clear, the answers are
obvious and I don\u2019t need advice.
Irrational feelings make sense when
we understand what\u2019s behind them.
Perhaps that\u2019s why prayer works, sometimes,
for some people \u2013 because God is mute,
and he doesn\u2019t give advice or try
to fix things.
God just listens and lets you work
it out for yourself.
So please listen, and just hear me.
And if you want to talk, wait a minute
for your turn \u2013 and I will listen to you.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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