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\u201cEverything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n\u300c\u8a8d\u77e5\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u9ed1\u6697\u4e43\u662f\u61c9\u5c0d\u4ed6\u4eba\u9ed1\u6697\u6700\u4f73\u4e4b\u9053\u300d
\u201cKnowing your own darkness is the best method for dealing with the darknesses of other people.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n\u69ae\u683c\u7684\u5973\u5f1f\u5b50\u746a\u9e97-\u8def\u858f\u7d72\uff0e\u99ae\uff0e\u6cd5\u862d\u8332\uff0c\u4e5f\u5e38\u5f9e\u7ae5\u8a71\u5206\u6790\u7684\u89d2\u5ea6\uff0c\u8ac7\u5973\u6027\u9670\u6027\u7684\u5ac9\u7fa8\u5fc3\u7406\uff0c\u8ac7\u7537\u6027\u967d\u6027\u7684\u5144\u5f1f\u7af6\u722d\u3002
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